Hi AAEmmerson1,
I am sorry for your experience of "real bad feeling", and hope this will not put you off the game. Or this forum, for that matter, as there is a lot of fun to be had here - however bewildering it might seem at the moment.
You and your friends are unfortunate to have walked into the crossfire of a controversy that has been raging in Particracy for a very long time. This is why some of the comments you have heard sound harsh. I hope it will make you feel a little better if I assure you it is nothing *personal*.
Some nations have developed specific cultures as a theme - by which I mean things like certain languages and religions. From time to time, these nations have "lost" their culture due to new players preferring to disregard them in favour of a "generic" Anglo-Saxon English-speaking culture. People have become upset about this in the past, and in response, Moderation introduced a system of Cultural Protocols to give nations some degree of "protection" against this. You can read more about the Cultural Protocols
here. Al'Badara, you will notice, is classified as a "Culturally Active Nation", which means it does not have a detailed census of religions followed and languages spoken, but it does have a broadly accepted culture (ie. Majatran, or Arabic in real-life).
For some while, I think parties in Al'Badara have listed their party names in Arabic, whilst giving an English translation on their party description. I suspect some people are disappointed that Al'Badara's newest parties have not chosen to do this. So far as I am aware, neither you nor your friends are obliged by the rules to give your parties Arabic names. But you might, of course, have a think about whether you would like to do this, since it might help you to feel more Arabic
.
You will, I believe, be generally expected to give Cabinet members and party characters Arabic names. Names of cities and your "national titles" (eg. name of the legislature, Head of Government, Head of State...) may be changed, but you are encouraged to keep them in Arabic.
You may find it interesting and helpful to look through your nation's legislative history and look at the parties that have competed in Al'Badara in the recent past. This will give you a better "feel" for what kind of nation Al'Badara has been roleplayed as. Reading the wiki pages,
like this one, could be useful too.
There are almost certainly other people here who will be able to give you better advice than me, or indeed correct any bad advice that I have inadvertently given you
. I am delighted you are enjoying the game, and hope you will continue to do so. And as I said before, please don't be too put off by any negativity. New players are vital to the future of this game.
Aquinas